所有的父母可能都会对孩子在学习、社交和自我方面的经历感到失望。玛雅是个内向者,在大型的小组课堂上,她在喧闹和刺激过度的教室里根本无法发挥自己的能力。她的老师告诉我,如果她在安静的气氛里跟几个同她一样努力而注重细节的孩子在一起合作,会把各种任务完成得非常出色,或者这一天里有大量需要独立完成的作业时,玛雅也能做得很好。当然,玛雅需要学会融入到小组中,但是像今天我所见到的这种经历能教会她这种技巧吗? All parents may be disappointed with their child’s learning, social, and self experience. Maya is an introvert, and in a large group class, she simply can not play her abilities in the noisy and hyperactive classrooms. Her teacher told me that if she worked together in a quiet atmosphere with a few details-oriented children who worked as hard as she would, the task would be done very well or there would be a lot of homework that needed to be done independently on this day Mayan can do well too. Of course, Maya needs to learn to fit into the group, but can this same skill as I have seen today teach her?