父母是子女不能随意选择的首任教师,父母的一言一行、一举一动,无论是有意的还是无意的、文明的还是粗野的、正确的还是错误的,都潜移默化地影响着孩子的身心发展。父母良好的心理素质能使孩子受益终身;反之,父母的不健康心理往往会在日常家庭生活中不自觉而又经常地对子女的心理产生“污染”。有关资料显示,79%的青少年的心理疾病是由家长的不良影响而引发的。家长的不健康心理成为影响孩子心理健康的重要污染源。 Parents are the first teachers whose children can not choose freely. Parents’ words and deeds, every move, whether intentional or unintentional, civilized or unruly, right or wrong, all influence the child’s physical and psychological development imperceptibly. Good psychological quality of parents can benefit their children for life; on the contrary, the unhealthy psychology of parents tend to “pollute” their children’s psychology unconsciously and often in their daily family life. Information shows that 79% of adolescents’ mental illness is caused by the adverse effects of parents. Parents’ unhealthy psychology has become an important source of pollution that affects children’s mental health.