孩子到了初三时,基本上开始有自己独立的主见与判断力了,这时候,家长可以与孩子平等地商量一些重大决策了,在这以前,孩子学不学琴,都是家长替他做的决定,而在这个阶段,大家可以共同商量孩子的定位。这时候,孩子也知道自己决定,自己是有责任的,一但根据自己的决定做出了选择,今后不管自己是否后悔,他都不应该埋怨家长。如果孩子到初三的时候明确 At the beginning of the third day, the child basically begins to have his own independent opinions and judgment. At this time, parents can discuss some important decisions equally with the children. Before this, the children did not learn the piano and all the parents did for him Decision, and at this stage, we can discuss the child’s position together. At this time, the children also know that they have decided that they are responsible. Once they have made their choice according to their own decision, they should not complain about their parents whether they regret it or not later. If the child to the first three clear