先从一个笑话说起,有两个农民合作酿酒,一个人家里有钱就提供米,另一个人穷点儿就提供水,结果酒酿成之后,出水的人说:“咱们就还按当初自己的东西来,你得米,我得水。”这实在是一个对婚姻的很好的比喻。女人最辉煌的岁月,是18岁到25岁——花样年华,犹如米。而男人的18岁到25岁,是什么呢?一般也就是光棍一条,青涩,莽撞,穷,一无所有,有的仅仅是一把子力气和一腔热情吧,犹如水。所以这个阶段 Speaking from a joke, there are two farmers co-brewing, one family to provide rice money, the other poor people provide water, the results after the wine brewed, the water people said: “Let’s press When I had my own thing, you got meters, I got water. ”This is really a good metaphor for marriage. Woman’s most brilliant years, is 18 years old to 25 years old - Mood for Love, like rice. The man of 18 years old to 25 years old, what is it? Generally is a bachelor, Sentimental, reckless, poor, nothing, and some just a handful of efforts and a passion, like water. So this stage