我女儿畅畅从小就很倔强,主意也自己拿,想好了要做一件事,不管你好言相劝也好,严厉阻止也罢,她都不为所动,一定要按自己的想法来。我为此非常苦恼,有时真想狠狠教训她一顿,可转念一想,教训她只能让她表面服从,不会让她心服,甚至还会引起不良后果。 My daughter, Chang Chang, was very stubborn from an early age. My idea was also taken by myself. I wanted to do something for the better. No matter what you say, you are advised to stop it. I am very distressed for this, and sometimes really want to severely punish her meal, you can think of it, to teach that she can only make her obedient, will not make her feel or even cause adverse consequences.