第一,想清楚你到底是喜欢他人还是喜欢自己暗恋的感觉。比如,我就认为更多的时候我是喜欢暗恋的感觉,如果这样,就埋在心里,随着外界的变换改变暗恋的对象。第二,如果是你真正喜欢的人,那就勇敢一点吧。人对喜欢自己的人是不会厌恶的,说不定还充满好奇。如果他因此小看鄙视你,那是他人品有问题。 First, find out if you like others or like your crush. For example, I think more often I like the feeling of crush, and if so, buried in my heart, with the transformation of the outside world to change the subject of crush. Second, if it’s someone you really like, be brave. People who do not like their own people will not hate, maybe full of curiosity. If he underestimate you despise, it is his character problems.