近来收到几位职高生朋友的来信,询问父母离异后自己归谁抚养的问题。其中一位同学的信件措辞悲观,觉得自己仿佛是被父母“抛弃”了;还有一位同学说他和年迈的奶奶住在一起,经济拮据,眼看就要失学,再婚的父母也不管。有鉴于此,在此我从法律上给大家讲讲这方面的问题。首先可以明确告诉这些同学:从法律角度看,父母是永远无法“抛弃”子女 Recently, I have received letters from several senior high school students and asked about the question of who they should support after their parents divorced. One of the classmates’ letters was pessimistic and felt as if they had been abandoned by their parents. Another classmate said that he lived with his aging grandmother and was financially stressed. He would be out of school if he saw it, and the parents who were remarried would not care. In view of this, I hereby give you legal advice on this issue. First of all, these students can be clearly told: From a legal point of view, parents can never “discard” their children.