家访,作为教育工作中的一种方法,经常被教师们采用。可是在农村学校,一些教师的家访往往事与愿违,产生逆反效应。 笔者曾见到这样一件事:某校一名学生学习成绩差,有不完成作业和旷课的坏习惯。一次又因犯错,老师领他去见家长,走在半路上,这个学生趁老师不备便逃跑了。半个多月以后,该生因在银川参加偷窃团伙作案,被公安部门抓住送回学校。事后了解,才知该生的爸爸是个铁匠,常为自己的孩子学习差而伤脑筋,每次老师家访走后,总要用顶砖下跪的方法来惩罚孩子。这个学生这次逃跑外出正是因为害怕老师的“告状”招来皮肉之苦。 Home visits, as a method of education, are often used by teachers. However, in rural schools, some teachers' home visits tend to go against their expectations and produce a reverse effect. I have seen such a thing: a school a student's poor academic performance, there are not completed the bad habits of homework and absenteeism. Once again because of mistakes, the teacher led him to see the parents, halfway, the students while the teacher was ready to escape. More than half a month later, the student was involved in theft gang in Yinchuan committing the crime, caught by the public security department sent back to school. Afterwards, I learned that my father was a blacksmith and often had poor and poor learning experiences for my own children. After each teacher's visit, I always punished the child with kneeling top brick. This student just fleeing out of school just because of fear of the teacher's “sued” to bring flesh and blood.