五十岁的母亲做出一个决定。“我要出去住一阵子。”这是她的原话,简洁明了。为什么要出去住,去哪里住,母亲都没说,这很不像她。在我的印象中,我从没见过母亲有任何关于她自身的决定,仿佛她是一件东西,属于这个家里的任何一个人,唯独不属于她自己。也许她的丈夫和三个儿子,还有我这个女儿在心里也是这样认为的,我们都对这样的日子习以为常:母亲天生就是为丈夫和孩子而存在的。这么多年来,她实际上也一直扮演这样的角色。母 Fifty-year-old mother made a decision. “I want to go out to live for a while. ” This is her original, concise. Why go out to live, where to live, the mother did not say, it is not like her. In my mind, I have never seen a mother have any decision about her as if she were a thing, belonging to any one of this family, but not to himself. Maybe her husband and three sons, and my daughter, think so in my heart, too, and we all take it for granted that mothers are born to be husbands and children. For so many years she has actually played such a role. mother