一位家长来信说,前不久他为孩子的生日送上了一份精美的礼物。可是,孩子却不愿意接受他的礼物,孩子说,只要爸爸妈妈以后别老拿他与别人比,就是最好的礼物。本来,他们平时拿孩子与别人比,是为了鼓励孩子。可没想到……那家长拿自己的孩子与别人比,究竟是好是坏?为此,我们走访了 A parent wrote in a letter that he had given her a beautiful gift for her birthday not long ago. However, the child is not willing to accept his gift, the child said that as long as the father and mother do not take him older than others, is the best gift. Originally, they usually take children and others than in order to encourage children. I did not expect ... that parents take their children with others, what is good or bad? For this reason, we visited