女儿11岁去新加坡,半年后就适应了那里的学习和生活,一年多后她参加狮城小升初全国统考,以优异成绩进入了排名第三的中学,这让我颇感意外和欣喜,然而随着她的成长,我开始感到了迷惑和担忧。因为在她身上,表现出越来越多和我的期望不一样的东西。从中国大陆去狮城留学的学生,很大的一个相同点就是对学习的高度专注和勤奋,而女儿此时却把很大精力放在了课外活动上。她参加了学校“华乐团”并担任二胡演奏员,而此前她从 She was 11 years old and went to Singapore. After six months, she adapted to her study and life. After more than a year, she attended the small national examination of Xiao Sheng and entered the third-ranked middle school with her outstanding achievement. This made me quite surprised and delighted. However, As she grew up, I began to feel puzzled and worried. Because on her body, showing more and more of my expectations are not the same thing. Students from mainland China to study in the city of Lion, a big one in common is the high degree of study dedicated and hard-working, and this time her daughter put a lot of energy on extra-curricular activities. She participated in the school “Chinese Orchestra” and served as erhu player, after she from