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目前,有些家长有时在别人面前训斥、挖苦、贬低自己的孩子,这使孩子极其反感,容易产生对抗心理,同时也挫伤孩子自尊心,甚至失去信心,破罐破摔。有些家长经常把自己的孩子同更优秀的孩子比,甚至用别人的长处比自己孩子的短处,这更会使孩子有挫折感、自卑感。上学期我选取八年级48名学生搞一个调查问卷,其中一个题目是:你最反感家长哪一条?结果是把自己同优秀孩子比占58%,家长喋喋不休占30%,体罚占12%。可见,孩
At present, some parents sometimes reprimand, sarcastic, belittle their children in front of others, which makes children extremely offensive, prone to confrontation, but also dampen the child’s self-esteem, or even lose confidence, breaking cans. Some parents often compare their children with the better ones and even use the strengths of others to compare with their own children’s shortcomings, which can even make the children feel frustrated and inferior. Last semester, I chose a 48-year-old 48 students to engage in a questionnaire, one of the questions: Which one of the most you dislike the parents? The result is compared with their outstanding children accounted for 58%, parents chatter about 30%, corporal punishment accounted for 12%. Visible, child