我们会经常听到这样的话,“我对他(她)又爱又恨”。也就是说,你分明觉得这个人可恨,但是你还是情不自禁地爱上他了。你以为这就是爱情了吗?人们常说:“恨有多深,爱就有多深。”就是这样似是而非的道理,在扰乱我们正常的生活方式和思维模式。于是,痛苦就成了爱情的标配,让我们都不知道是在寻找爱情还是在寻找痛苦。它妨碍了我们寻找到真正的幸福。那么,就让我们用法律的尺度来打量一下我们的生活吧,它会加深你对生活的理解,也许还会颠覆你从前的认知,如对爱情的认知。 We often hear such words, “I love him and hate him again.” In other words, you clearly think this person hate, but you still can not help but love him. Do you think this is love? People often say: “How much hate, how deep love. ” Is this paradox, disrupt our normal way of life and thinking. As a result, the pain became the standard of love, so that we do not know whether we are looking for love or looking for pain. It prevents us from finding true happiness. So, let us look at the scale of law to look at our life, it will deepen your understanding of life, and perhaps subvert your previous understanding, such as the recognition of love.