儿童情感控制能力的发展,需要依靠成人的引导和帮助。运用角色游戏可以帮助儿童控制情感。在角色游戏中,儿童常常会表现出侵犯性的破坏情绪来。如果儿童的安全感没有问题,他们的冲动都能控制在一定的限度之内,保持假装的状态。儿童假装打仗或玩火,并表现出“越轨”情绪时,成人必须在他们附近,并及时地“稳定”他们,让他们停下来,不要造成真的伤害。如果没有成人的这种帮助,就不可能在游戏 The development of children’s emotional control needs to rely on adult guidance and help. Role-playing games can help children control their emotions. In character games, children often show offensive destructive emotions. If children have no problem with their sense of security, their urges can be kept within a certain limit and remain pretending. When children pretend to be engaged in a war or playing with fire and show “off-track” emotions, adults must be in their immediate vicinity and “stabilize” them in a timely manner so that they can stop without causing any real harm. Without the help of adults, it is impossible in the game