在日常生活中,父母常常会对孩子提出一定的要求,如起床、穿衣、吃饭、上幼儿园、收拾房间等等,希望通过实现这些日常的要求来培养孩子的生活能力,培养他们良好的行为习惯和品德。然而,这些看似简单的事情却往往由于孩子拒绝配合而变得复杂起来。有的家长为了得到孩子的配合,会采取各种方式,如哄、劝、诱导,甚至命令、威胁、贿赂、惩罚等。但这些方式往往效果并不理想。那么,父母应该怎么做才比较妥当呢?我认为应从以下几个方面做起: 首先,父母对孩子的行为不要消极否定,随意批评。在日常生活中,当孩子把玩具洒落一地也不去 In daily life, parents often ask their children something like getting up, dressing, eating, going to kindergarten, tidying up their room, etc., hoping to cultivate their living ability and cultivate their good behavior by fulfilling these daily requirements Habit and character. However, these seemingly simple things tend to be complicated by children’s refusal to cooperate. Some parents take various measures to cope with their children, such as coaxing, persuading, inducing, or even ordering, threatening, bribing, punishing, and so on. However, these methods often do not work well. So, parents should be how to do it more appropriate? I think we should start from the following aspects: First, parents should not negate the behavior of children, free criticism. In everyday life, when a child splashes a toy, it does not go either