个案一:不要让她“等到花谢”在电台做节目时,接听到林先生的咨询,他自称个性比较毛躁,一直以为男人就应该干脆果敢,不要“像女人似的婆婆妈妈”。刚结婚的头三年,林先生总是一气呵成地解决性问题,没有前戏,也没有什么氛围的营造,反正他自己觉得过瘾、满足就行,也基本没有照顾到妻子的感受,他对此好像也无所谓。新鲜感过后,性爱对他而言有些枯燥无趣之时,他开始寻找突破,并且也有心经营更丰富的性爱内涵。可是,当他突然意识到太太的存在时,才猛然发觉3 Case 1: Do not let her “wait until Hua Xie” program on the radio, the answer to Mr. Lin’s advice, he claimed to be more impatient personality, always thought that men should be simply bold, do not “like a woman like mother and daughter.” In the first three years of his marriage, Mr. Lam always tackled sexual problems in a coherent manner. There was no foreplay and no atmosphere to create anyway. He felt himself entertained and satisfied on his trip, and basically did not take care of his wife’s feelings. It does not matter. Freshness later, when sex is boring and boring for him, he began looking for a breakthrough, and also have the heart to operate richer sex content. However, when he suddenly realized the existence of his wife, he suddenly found 3