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如果询问当今父母:您最关心孩子什么?90％以上的父母回答是“孩子的学习”。严峻的现实使不少家长在指导孩子的学习上往往采用简单生硬的打、骂、罚的办法,死跟紧盯,恩威兼施,层层加压,孩子不堪重负,结果与初衷背道而驰,甚至酿成令人心痛而永远悔恨的悲剧。前来心理咨询室寻求帮助的同学,百分之九十以上都是因为家长对学习成绩要求过高而使其产生过重的心理负担,有的还造
If you ask parents today: What is your most concerned about children? More than 90% of parents answered “children’s learning.” The grim reality that many parents often use simple and rigid ways of hitting, scolding and punishing with dead and staring eye-catching, graceful exertions, layers of pressure and children overwhelmed with the guidance of their children’s learning. The results run counter to the original intention, Even lead to sad and forever remorseful tragedy. More than 90% of the students who came to the counseling room to seek help because of the parents’ overly high requirements on their academic performance have an overly psychological burden,