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所谓婚姻调适,是指夫妻双方在思想、观念、认识、态度、愿望、理想和情操等方面互相调节、适应,以满足彼此生理的、心理的、文化的和社会的方方面面的需要。社会学家的调查研究表明,婚姻关系失调的多半原因是人格发展出现脱节。在婚姻过程中,夫妻双方的人格发展一般是不平衡的。这样,为解决不平衡,就需要根据“互敬、互爱、互信、互勉、互帮、互谅、互慰”的原则指导夫妻关系,并在夫妻日常生活中采取理智、有效的调适方法指导和规范自己的行为,收到事半功倍的效果。
The so-called marriage adaptation refers to the husband and wife in the ideology, concept, understanding, attitude, aspirations, ideals and sentiments and other aspects of mutual adjustment, adaptation, to meet each other’s physiological, psychological, cultural and social needs. Sociologist’s investigation shows that most of the reasons for marital imbalance are the disjointed personality development. In the process of marriage, the personality development of both spouses is generally unbalanced. In this way, in order to solve the imbalance, we need to guide the relationship between husband and wife according to the principles of mutual respect, mutual love, mutual trust, mutual encouragement, mutual help, mutual understanding and mutual comfort, and adopt a rational and effective adjustment in the daily life of the couple Methods to guide and regulate their own behavior, receive a multiplier effect.