面对孩子之间的争吵，多数父母常采用以下几种做法：制止争吵；评判对错；阻止自家孩子的行为；靠转移孩子的注意力来平息“内战”……孰不知，这些方法一次次剥夺了孩子学习与人交往的机会，不利于他们社会性的发展。孩子之间的争吵是儿童交往中不可避免的现象，也可以说是儿 In the face of children’s quarrels, most parents often use the following practices: to stop the quarrel; judge the right and wrong; stop their own children’s behavior; by distracting the child’s attention to quell the “civil war” ... I do not know, these methods again and again Deprived children of learning opportunities for interaction with others is not conducive to their social development. Quarrel between children is an inevitable phenomenon in children’s communication, it can be said to be children