一位朋友的孩子考试成绩很糟糕,当家长批评他的时候,他却找出了一大堆理由来推卸责任。比如说老师讲课自己听不清,这次考试的题目太难,考试时旁边的同学总是做小动作让自己受到了影响……在这些理由中,没有一条与他自己本身有关系,好像考试考砸了全是别人的过错。其实,孩子有推卸责任的现象是相当普遍的,有关调查显示,处在成长阶段的孩子有推卸责任习惯的占60%以上。孩子喜欢逃避责任,主要是由于缺乏信任感造成的。一个孩子的成长过程中,如果父母给孩子的关爱和理解过少,不信任自己 A friend’s child had a poor test score, and when the parents criticized him, he found a great deal of reason to shirk his responsibilities. For example, the teacher did not listen to lectures, the exam’s topic is too difficult, the exams next to the classmates always do tricks to himself affected ... ... Of these reasons, none of his own relationship, like the exam test Smashed all the fault of others. In fact, the phenomenon that children have the responsibility to shirk their duties is quite common. According to the survey, children in the growth stage have more than 60% of their responsibility habits. Children like to evade responsibility, mainly due to a lack of trust. A child’s growth process, if the parents give their children’s love and understanding is too small, do not trust themselves