春秋战国时,魏安釐王问孔斌:“谁是天下高士?”孔斌说:“世上没有完美无缺的人,如果退而求其次的话,鲁仲连勉强能算一个。”安釐王不赞同,说:“鲁仲连老是强迫自己做一些不愿做的事,无非为了做给别人看,此人表里不一,不是真正的君子。”这时,孔斌说了一句很经典的话:“作之不止,乃成君子。”管他真心还是假意,就算是演假戏给别人看,只要坚持不懈地演下去,久而久之就会弄假成真,成为真正的君子。有一个流浪汉,冬天没衣穿没饭吃,饥寒交迫。当他从一个 Spring and Autumn Period, Wei Anli Wang asked Kong Bin: “Who is the world scholar?” Kong Bin said: “There is no perfect person in the world, if you back and seek the next, Lu Zhong Lian reluctantly can count one. ”King Anli does not agree, saying:“ Lu Zhonglian always forced himself to do something unwilling to do, nothing more than to do for others to see, this person is mixed, not a real gentleman. ”“ At this time, Kong Bin said a very classic words: ”for more than that, is a gentleman.“ ”He cares or hypocritical, even if the show is to show others, as long as perseverance to play, in the course of time will get things into reality and become real Gentleman. There is a tramp, did not wear winter clothes did not eat, cold and hunger. When he is from one