大面儿上,男人总喜欢娶比自己小的女人,女人总喜欢嫁比自己强的男人。这种“男娶小、女嫁强”的模式,其实还是男权思想——男权与女色进行交易的产物。如果一个35岁的男人只是找情人而不是结婚,他也只会向朋友们炫耀他最近泡了个21岁的年轻姑娘。可如果找了个也是35岁的情人,那就只能没事偷着乐了。虽然以情人而 On the face of children, men always like to marry smaller than their own women, women always like to marry more than their own men. This “male marry small, strong female marry ” model, in fact, is the product of the patriarchal mentality - male and female transactions. If a 35-year-old man is just looking for a lover instead of getting married, he will only show off to his friends that he recently had a 21-year-old young girl. But if you find a 35-year-old lover, it can only be nothing to steal music. Although the lover