美国著名的心理学家威廉·詹姆斯说:“我们这一代人最重大的发现是:人能改变心态,从而改变自己的一生。”的确,人生的成功或失败,幸福或坎坷,快乐或悲伤,有相当一部分是由人自己的心态造成的。有这样一个故事。有位老太太找了一个油漆匠到家里粉刷墙壁。油漆匠一走进门,看到她的丈夫双目失明,顿时 William James, a famous psychologist in the United States, said: “The most significant discovery of our generation is that people can change their mindset and thus change their whole life.” Indeed, life’s success or failure, happiness or frustration, happiness or sadness, A considerable part of the mentality is caused by the people themselves. There is such a story. An old lady got a paintbrush home to paint the wall. As soon as the painter came in, she saw her husband blindfolded suddenly