孩子为什么会“啃老”呢?就孩子本人说,属于心理年龄不成熟,没有形成应有的社会角色和自我意识。所谓社会角色,就是一个人的行为与心理符合社会的期望。所谓自我意识包含三个方面:自我认识、自我体验、自我控制。表面上看是孩子花钱没计划,生活指望父母,实质上是没形成自己的社会角色,不能按成年人的标准来要求自己。孩子体验不到社会角色带给他的责任 Why does the child “chew the old ”? The child himself said that the psychological age is immature, there is no formation of social roles and self-awareness should be due. The so-called social role, is a person’s behavior and psychology in line with social expectations. The so-called self-awareness includes three aspects: self-awareness, self-experience, self-control. On the surface, children spend money without plans, life expectation of parents, in essence, did not form their own social role, can not be as adults to their own standards. Children experience less than the social role of his responsibility