一个朋友给我谈起有趣的问候:她曾经很向往西洋人夫妻间那种“可爱”的问候语,比如“谢谢”、“打扰你了”等,具体表现就是老公为她装一碗饭,她也不忘说声“谢谢”;老公夜里迟归,吵醒了妻子,第一句话“对不起”……新婚的日子里,这位朋友觉得这种问候挺新鲜的,慢慢的一年过后,她突然觉得这“好客气”,甚至有点虚伪了。对此,她感到厌倦,并问我:为什么相敬如宾,一点也不“好玩”? A friend told me interesting greetings: She used to aspire to the kind of “cute” greetings between Western couples, such as “thank you”, “bother you” and so on, the specific performance is her husband installed a bowl of rice for her, She also did not forget to say “thank you”; husband late at night, woke up his wife, the first sentence “I’m sorry” ... ... wedding day, the friend felt this greeting is very fresh, slow year After that, she suddenly thought it was “polite” and even a bit hypocritical. In this regard, she was tired and asked me: Why respect each other, not “fun”?