家庭上养老 ,下养小 ,这是中华民族几千年的传统。在西方国家 ,儿女成年后要自食其力 ,父母一般就不管了 ;而父母老了 ,经济上也一般不依赖子女。在我国 ,传统的家庭模式延续至今 ,父母把全部心血几乎都花在儿女身上。子女上学、找工作、买房、结婚、生孩子等等 ,父母都得管着 Old-age family, raising under the small, which is the Chinese for thousands of years of tradition. In Western countries, when children become self-reliant adults, parents usually do not care. Parents are old and economically dependent on their children. In our country, the traditional family model has been extended so far, and parents spend almost all their efforts on children. Children go to school, find a job, buy a house, get married, have children and so on, parents have to manage