人与人之间的沟通,可以分为三种不同的心态,即家长心态、成人心态和孩童心态。有这样一个例子:三个人合伙做生意,最后赔了,甲说:“都怨你们,没有真本事,和你们合伙真是倒霉!”乙说:“我觉得这次赔本有几个原因,一是我们三人想法不一,劲没往一处使。二是工作上也存在一些客观阻力。”丙说:“都是我不好,我没干好工作,请你们原谅,我一定会改正,大家还是接着干吧。”这段对话中,甲用长辈的口 Communication between people, can be divided into three different states of mind, that is, parents mentality, adult mentality and child mentality. There is such an example: three people to do business partnership, and finally lost, A said: “all blame you, do not have the real ability, and you guys really unlucky! ” B said: “I think the loss for several reasons First, the three of us have different ideas and do not make any effort at one place. Second, there are also some objective resistances at work. ”“ C said: ”All I did was not good. I did not do a good job, I will correct, we still do it. “” In this dialogue, the eldest’s mouth