我的邻居家有一个四岁的小男孩长得活泼可爱。可就是有一点,他的玩具谁也不能动,他喜欢吃的东西谁也别想吃。有一天,一个小妹妹到他家里玩,他妈妈给了小妹妹一瓶娃哈哈,几块糖,他马上抢了回来,说:“这是我的!”妈妈批评他,他哭闹不止。当时我就想,孩子出生后,一定要让他学会关心别人,体贴别人。儿子洋洋出生后,我的计划就逐步实施了。首先,从吃的方面着手。无论给他吃什么,我们都要分吃一些。给他糖果,我们拿几块;给他饼干,我们吃几块;给他娃哈哈时,我们先喝一口;给他水果,我们分一半。刚开始时,觉得挺不好意思,与一个小小孩争吃的,好像是自己嘴馋,但想到事关孩子的习惯和品性,我和先生就坚持了下来。洋洋三岁之前都没有什么反应,因为我们从他不会说话时就开始这样做 My neighbor has a four-year-old boy who is cute and lively. But there is one thing, his toy who can not move, he likes to eat something who do not want to eat. One day, a little sister went to his house to play and his mother gave her sister a bottle of wahaha, a few pieces of sugar, and he immediately grabbed it back and said: “This is mine!” My mother criticized him and he cries . At that time, I thought that after a child was born, he must learn to care for others and be considerate of others. After my son was born, my plan was gradually implemented. First of all, from the aspects of eating. No matter what to eat for him, we have to eat some. Give him candy, we take a few; give him biscuits, we eat a few; give him Wahaha, we first take a drink; give him fruit, we divided half. At first, I felt rather embarrassed, contemptuous with a small child, seems to be greedy, but think of the child’s habits and character, my husband and I persevered. There was no reaction until the age of three, because we did it from when he could not speak