卡夫卡小说《变形记》里,当男主人公格里高尔身体健康,赚钱养家时,他是家庭里一名受尊敬的长子。而当他患了不治之症失去工作,他在家里的一切尊严被剥夺干净,甚至连衣食都无人过问。卡夫卡写的是一种普遍的人类生存状况。人的变形,也是自我“异化”的一种写照。那么,在当今崇尚个性的时代里,人究竟该不该改变自己的个性,来迎合对方,以博得他(她)的爱?为一个你在乎的人改变自己,你干吗? In Kafka’s novel Metamorphosis, Greggol was the revered eldest son in the family when his hero Gregg was healthy and profitable. When he got an incurable disease and lost his job, all his dignity at home was taken away, and even the food and clothing were left unattended. Kafka is writing a universal human condition. Human deformation, but also self “alienation” a portrayal. So, in today’s era of personality advocacy, people should not change their personality, to meet each other in order to win his (her) love for a change you care about yourself, what are you doing?