在美国,“拿绿卡”是许多中国人梦寐以求的事情,除了少数“移民”到美国的中国人外,大部分中国人是以商务考察的方式来到美国的。为了解决“绿卡”问题,在美国的中国人通常采取以下几种方式:一是与美国公民真结婚,二是与美国公民假结婚,三是通过美国的律师事务所,利用美国法律上的一些漏洞,采取提供虚假材料,编造或扩大事实等方式,骗取美国政府的信任以达到获得“绿卡”的目的,而这三种方式都必须以法律文件为根据,因为美国是一个法制国家,即使是打架斗殴这样的小事,按照美国的法律,也必须通过“法庭”审议来解决。大部分在美国的中国女性是采取第一种方式获得“绿卡”的。Saly是八十年代末与一位美国公民结婚来到美国的。她是上海人,结婚一年后,她有了一个儿子,按照美国政府的规定,导致夫妻两地分居是不尊重人权,因此,在儿子两周岁的时候她来到了美国,也许是刚刚来到美国的兴奋掩盖了他们夫妻双方性格上的差异,因此,开始的夫妻生活还算和谐,随着时间的推移,Saly渐渐适应了美国的生活,同时也渐渐不满足于平淡的生活,她想到了上学,她选择了读医科大学,尽管美国医科大学的学费是最昂贵的,但丈夫还是满足她的愿望,在她上学的日子里,丈夫在工作之余,无怨无悔地承担着她的上学费用和全部家务,度过了一段平静而甜蜜的生活。冬去春来,光阴似箭,四年后,她拿到了美国医科大学的毕业证书,并在美国的一家医院工作,月薪5000多美金。工作环境和经济地位的变化使她的思想也发生了变化,她不再崇拜做小生意的丈夫,她想进入美国的白领阶层,很快,她也有了追求者,一位美国医生走进了她 In the United States, “getting a green card” is what many Chinese people dream of. Most Chinese people came to the United States with the exception of a handful of “immigrants” to the United States. In order to solve the “green card” issue, the Chinese in the United States usually adopt the following ways: First, marry a U.S. citizen, second marry a U.S. citizen, and third, through a U.S. law firm, use U.S. law Some of the loopholes, to provide false information, fabricate or expand the facts, etc., to cheat the trust of the United States government in order to achieve the purpose of obtaining “green card”, and these three methods must be based on legal documents, because the United States is a legal system Countries, even minor things such as fighting, must also be resolved through “courtroom” deliberation according to U.S. law. Most Chinese women in the United States are adopting the first way to get “green card”. Saly came to the United States by marrying a U.S. citizen in the late 1980s. She was a Shanghai native. She had a son a year after getting married. According to the U.S. government, separation between husband and wife did not respect human rights. Therefore, when her son was two years old, she came to the United States and perhaps just arrived The excitement of the United States masked the differences in character between the two husbands and wives, and as a result, the beginning of the conjugal life was fairly harmonious. With the passage of time, Saly gradually adapted to the American life and gradually became dissatisfied with ordinary life. She went to school, she chose to go to medical school, although the American Medical University tuition is the most expensive, but her husband still meet her desire, in her school days, her husband in the spare time, without her regret to bear her Going to school for a fee and all the housework spent a quiet and sweet life. Winter went to spring, time flies, four years later, she got a diploma from the American Medical University and worked in a hospital in the United States, a monthly salary of more than 5000 US dollars. Changes in her work environment and economic status changed her mind. She no longer worships her small business husband. She wants to enter the white-collar workers in the United States. Soon she also has a suitor, and an American doctor enters she was