有研究表明，婚外恋是当今婚姻破裂、夫妻离异的主要原因，婚外恋已成为全社会普遍关注的社会问题。为什么会出现婚外恋呢？过去传统说法是道德败坏、品德恶劣、生活作风不正派、腐化堕落等等，这只说对了一部分，没有揭示出形成婚外恋的实质性原因。我们早有一句聪明的“评语 Studies have shown that extramarital love is the main reason for the divorce of marriage and the divorce nowadays. Extramarital affairs have become a social issue of general concern to the whole society. Why there is extramarital affair? In the past, the traditional saying was that moral corruption, bad moral character, unfair life style, corruption and depravity, etc. were only part of the truth and did not reveal the substantive reasons for the formation of extra-marital affairs. We have a clever "comment