年轻的时候读《红楼梦》,里面有个情节至今记忆犹新,大意是王熙凤抱着自己的女儿向村妇刘姥姥讨教:“为什么大姐儿老是有三病二疼?”刘姥姥的回答是:“奶奶少疼她一点就行了,她小小的人儿受用不起。”一语道破了千金小姐为什么老是病病歪歪的道理。小孩太过于疼爱了,未必是什么好事。我的女儿出生一个月后,我就定时给她把尿,不再用尿布了。当时别人都觉得不可思议,但这是自 Young time to read “Dream of Red Mansions”, there is a story still fresh memories, to the effect that Wang Xixiang hugged her daughter to the village to ask for her grandmother: “Why the older sister always have three ill and two pain?” Liu grandmother’s answer is: “Granny less hurt her a little on the line, her little child can not afford to use the child.” In the end why the princess why the disease is always ill truth. Children are too much love, may not be a good thing. A month after my daughter was born, I regularly give her urine, no longer diapers. At that time, others felt incredible, but this is from