天下有哪个父母不爱自己的孩子呢?然而我们却经常见到这样的场面,父母和孩子在一起时,尤其是父母要教育自己的孩子时,不是父母在滔滔不绝地讲,孩子耷拉着脑袋听,就是父母板着脸去质问孩子,要让孩子说出父母心中早已认定的孩子的错处。这中间哪有一点意思是去听孩子的心里话呢?在这种情景下,如果这孩子真的听了父母的话,那只能说明孩子在爱父母,在了解父母,绝不能说父母在了解孩子,“教育”孩子,爱孩子。另外,就拿我们自身来 Which parents in the world do not love their children? However, we often see such a scene, parents and children together, especially when parents want to educate their children, not parents are endless, the child drew his head Listen, that is, parents face to face questioning children, let the children tell their parents already identified the wrong mind of the child. In this scenario, if this child really listens to his parents, it only shows that the children love their parents and understand their parents. They must not say that their parents are learning Children, “educate” children, love children. In addition, take our own