笔者在交警部门工作,每当驾驶员培训班考试之际,总有熟人和朋友找上门来,要求给考官说个情,考试时手下留情,以便轻松地考取驾驶证。本来熟人之间关照一下也是常有之事,可唯独考驾驶证这个人情实在是难做。不予帮忙则有碍朋友情面,可要给予关照通融则又内心有愧,于心不忍。而朋友们可能觉得,通融关照了才够交情,否则就不够朋友。其实这是“考本”者的一种心理误区。 I work in the traffic police department, whenever the pilot training examinations, there are always acquaintances and friends come to ask the examiner to say flirt, test his hands merciless, in order to easily obtain a driver’s license. It is common to have acquaintances between acquaintances, but only the test driver’s license is indeed difficult to do. If you do not help you, you will not be able to help your friends. And friends may think that care is enough to meet the friendship, or not enough friends. In fact, this is a “test” who is a kind of psychological errors.