古语说:知己知彼,百战不殆。其实,在女人和男人的这场战争中,女人并非想获得胜利。男人和女人是对手亦是朋友,少了谁,另一方也许都会因寂寞而死。所以,了解和理解皆是为了更加平等地对话,互利互惠,使平凡的生命精彩而美丽。婚前,男人口口声声地对女人说:“真希望你永远这么纯情似水!”然而,婚后倘若女人果真为取悦他而硬撑着扮作小龙女般不食人间烟火不谙世事的模样,只能是费力不讨好——“你 The old saying says: Know thyself, know yourself. In fact, women do not want to win this war between women and men. Men and women are opponents are also friends, less who, the other party may die because of loneliness. Therefore, understanding and understanding are all aimed at a more equal dialogue, mutual benefit and reciprocity so that extraordinary life is wonderful and beautiful. Before marriage, a man said to a woman in a vociferous voice: ”I hope you will always be innocent! “ However, if a woman really is to please him after marriage, hold on to act as a little girl, , Can only be thankless - ”you