堂弟谋了个小差事,春节见面,问我有什么话要说,我说了八个字:“临事而惧,功不唐捐。”母亲说,你什么时候也改改这个好为人师的毛病呢?我说,我确实想忠告他。这八个字,是我人到中年才悟出其中奥妙的,是跌了许多跟头、走了许多弯路之后才咂摸出的。临事而惧,语出《论语·述而》:“暴虎冯河,死而无悔者,吾不与也。必也临事而惧,好谋而成者也。”这段话,在曲阜上大学时就背诵过,但是仅仅是止于 Cousin made a small errand, meet the Spring Festival, asked me what words to say, I said eight words: “temporary fear, donations donated.” “Mother said, when you change this Is it a teacher’s fault? I said, I really want to advise him. This eight characters, my middle-aged people to realize which of the subtle, is a lot of fall or a lot of detours before they sneak out. Provisional and fear, the language of the Analects of Confucius and said: ”“ Tiger violent Feng, death and no regrets, I do not and also must come and fear, well-intentioned also. ” Words, recited in Qufu in college, but only stopped