有人认为改善说话没有底气的状况,最重要的是让自己变得更好,自我评价高了,自然自信。事实上,自我评价比较高和自信是两码事。我有一个考上清华大学的同学,非北京人,后来他继续读研,成绩一直很优异。他的自我评价应该很高吧?但事实上他是一个非常自卑的人,平时跟人说话都有点儿闪躲,更别说向别人提要求或者要别人还钱了。记得一本心理学书籍中提到一种“对任何人都 Some people think that there is no confidence to improve the speech situation, the most important thing is to make themselves better, self-evaluation is high, self-confidence. In fact, self-evaluation is relatively high and self-confidence are two different things. I have a classmate admitted to Tsinghua University, non-Peking Man, and later he continued to study, the result has been excellent. His self-evaluation should be very high, right? But in fact he is a very low self-esteem, usually talking to people are a bit dodge, let alone to others to ask or to repay others. Remember a psychology book that mentions one ”for anyone."