遇到孩子打人的情形,家长一定要保持冷静,在紧迫关头保持耐心,并教给孩子解决矛盾的方法。孩子间发生矛盾,进而打架的事情时有发生。一般来说,孩子打人并非讨厌对方。很多时候,孩子可能只是想借助打人这种行为试探别人的反应,或是引起他人的注意。桐桐是个不爱说话的小男孩,马上就要10岁了。平时桐桐看上去很听话,但和其他小朋友玩的时候,他经常动手打人。妈妈询问桐桐为什么打人,桐桐却说:“我很想和他们交朋友,可他们却老跟我作 Encounter the case of child beating, parents must be calm, keep patience in the pressing moment, and teach children to resolve conflicts. Conflicts between children, and then fighting things have occurred. In general, children do not hate each other. In many cases, a child may just want to try someone else’s response or attract the attention of others by hitting someone. Tong Tong is a little boy who does not speak, and is about to be 10 years old. Tong Tong usually looks very obedient, but when playing with other children, he often beaten. Mother asked why the hit Tong Tong, Tong Tong said: ”I really want to make friends with them, but they are always with me as