“中国的父母是天底下最爱孩子的,但却是最不懂得如何爱孩子的”。我们对孩子的教育往往短视,缺少长远目光,最常见的是重视知识的掌握,忽视游戏的作用。而儿童在游戏中往往有超乎寻常的表现,有自我探索、自我把握、自我超越的能力。短视很容易让我们习惯性地束缚儿童,虽然我们都曾惊叹过儿童智慧的话语和出人意料的举动,但我们仍然喜 “China’s parents are the most beloved children, but it is the most do not know how to love children ”. Our education for children is often short-sighted and lacks long-term vision. The most common one is to emphasize the mastery of knowledge and neglect the role of the game. Children in the game often have extraordinary performance, self-exploration, self-grasp, self-transcendence ability. Shortsightedness makes it easy for us to bind children habitually, and although we have both marveled at the words of children’s wisdom and unexpected moves, we are still happy