孩子的成长主要取决于家庭教育和学校教育,孩子的身心健康也来自家庭和学校的正确引导。如今的独生子女存在人格缺陷、心理脆弱的为数不少。有的固执、冷漠、自卑不合群;有的自负、充满了攻击性;有的怕面对父母和老师……大量的事实表明,孩子身上存在的各种心理障碍很大程度都 Children’s growth depends mainly on family education and school education, children’s physical and mental health also comes from the correct guidance of the family and school. Today’s only child has personality defects, a lot of psychological fragility. Some stubborn, apathetic, inferior inferiority groups; some arrogant, full of aggressiveness; some fear of facing parents and teachers ... ... a large number of facts show that the child’s body to a large extent the various psychological disorders