做父母的常常要遇到这样一些问题: 为什么这个孩子总是“不合群”? 学习上什么时候才能不再为他操心? 怎样让孩子活泼但不出格,沉稳但不怠惰? 诸如此类的问题,就事论事总没有“长效”作用;但该说的不说,又是失职。有的父母,恨铁不成钢——急,没有用;有的父母听天由命——等,这不是办法;有人宽慰说:“树大自然直”——“直”了的固然有,但“歪脖子”树也并非罕见! Parents often encounter such questions as: Why is this child always “not gregarious?” When learning can no longer worry about him? How to make children lively but not unusual, calm but not lazy? Problems such as these , There is always no “long-term ” effect on the facts of the case; but to say nothing, it is also a failure of duty. Some parents, hate iron into steel - urgent, useless; some parents listen to their own lives - and so on, this is not the way; it was relieved that: “Tree of Nature Straight ” - “Straight ” of course, there , But “crooked neck ” tree is not uncommon!