作为美国教育心理学学会主席,斯腾·伯格在塔夫斯大学演讲时认为:“对于男女双方的爱情,任何一方都不会爱你一生一世。”斯腾·伯格说:“假如有一天,我在一场意外的车祸中,失去了双手失去了双腿甚至变成了植物人呢?那么我拿什么爱你一生照顾你一生?所以,永远爱你我不会!”为此,斯腾·伯格讲了一则故事:在答应男友的求婚后,苏珊问了一句让他男友足足回答了几百次相同答案的问题。“你会爱我一生照顾我一生吗?”尽管她知道 As the president of the American Society of Educational Psychology, Stenberg, in his address at Tufts University, said: “” For the love of both men and women, neither will love you forever. “Stenberg said: ”If one day I lost my legs in an unexpected car accident and even turned into a vegetative state, then what love I love you for your whole life? So I will never love you forever! “ To this end, Stenberg told a story: Susan asked a boyfriend after his promise to ask his boyfriend to answer hundreds of times the same answer. ”Will you love my life to take care of my life?“ ”Although she knows