人有一种奇怪的心理,那就是往往容易站在自己的不足之处、自己遭受的挫折的立场上去揣想别人,觉得别人都比自己优越、快乐、幸福,相比之下,自己则成了世界上最差劲、最晦气、最不幸的人了。有个中学生总快乐不起来:你看看我的长相就知道了,我有那么大的一个鼻子,圆圆的还有点红 People have a strange psychology. It is often easy to stand in their own shortcomings, to think about others in their own frustration, to feel that others are superior to themselves, happy, and happy. In contrast, they have become the world. The worst, most unlucky, most unfortunate person. A middle school student can’t always be happy: When you look at my looks, you know, I have a nose that’s so big.