“妈妈,他打我!”“老师,他抢我的玩具。”小孩子爱告状,大人们很苦恼:这孩子怎么这么烦?先别着急发火,这烦恼也许因你而起。6岁的豆豆是个聪明伶俐的孩子,就是常常爱告状,总说同学打她。作为成长营的老师,我没有立即处理,而是选择继续观察,等待时机。有一天,几个同学在玩耍,无意中碰到了豆豆的眼睛,她大哭不止。涉及眼睛是比较危险的事,而且告状的现象愈演愈烈,已经阻碍了孩子们自己解决问题的能动性,是时候集中处理这个问题了。 “Mom, he hit me! ” “Teacher, he robbed my toy. ” Children love complain, adults are distressed: how the child is so annoying? Do not worry about getting angry, this worry may be due to you . 6-year-old Peas is a clever child, that is, often love complain, always say that students hit her. As a growth camp teacher, I did not immediately deal with, but chose to continue to observe and wait for the timing. One day, a few students are playing, accidentally ran into the eyes of Peas, she cried more than. Eye involvement is a dangerous thing, and the growing tendency to complain has hindered the children’s ability to solve their own problems and it is time to focus on this issue.