随着经济的飞速发展,农村的剩余劳动力日益增多,守着几亩薄田,日子已经不能跟上时代的步伐,于是,大多数年轻的父母加入了浩浩荡荡的打工之路,留下孩子和年迈的爷爷奶奶一起生活。大多数爷爷奶奶采取放羊式态度对待自己的宝贝孙子或孙女,捧在手里怕摔着,含在嘴里怕化了。有的爷爷奶奶虽然严格但孩子不愿意听他们的,也无可奈何。残缺的爱,使大多数留守儿童自私、任性、为所欲为。在学习方面,有的儿童存有厌烦甚至抗拒的心理。苏霍姆林斯基曾感叹:“从我手里经过的学生 With the rapid economic development, the surplus labor force in rural areas is increasing day by day, keeping a few acres of thin fields, the days can no longer keep up with the pace of the times. As a result, most young parents have joined the mighty migrant workers and left their children and Elderly grandparents live together. Most grandparents take sheepish attitude toward their baby grandson or granddaughter, holding in the hands of fear of falling, fear in his mouth. Some grandparents although strict but children do not want to listen to them, but also helpless. Torn love, so that most left-behind children selfish, self-willed, do whatever they want. In learning, some children are bored or even resist the mentality. Sukhomlinski once lamented: ”The students passed by my hands