别误会,我不是要在这里谈天说地,而是借用了民歌中的一句话,就人际交往一抒浅见。 交际作为一种艺术,也须讲究一定的方式和技巧,如讲话的内容必须与听者的心情相和谐,古人说:“勿对失意人谈得意事”。这确是经验之谈。说话做事、待人接物要有分寸,这一点十分重要。但总的说来,技巧是末是枝叶,个人的道德学问修养才是根本。 Do not misunderstand, I am not here to talk to the earth, but to borrow a word in folk songs, interpersonal communication express. Communication as an art, but also pay attention to certain ways and techniques, such as the content of the speech must be harmonious with the listener’s mood, the ancients said: “Do not talk to the disappointed frustrated.” This is really the experience of conversation. It is very important to talk and do things. But in general, skills are the last branches and leaves, personal moral education is fundamental.