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在南太平洋上,有一个叫巴布亚族的土著民族。这个民族有一种传统的风俗,就是在每个村子里都专门开辟了一块取名叫“夫妻吵架场”的场地,专供夫妻吵架和众人围观之用。当夫妻之间发生矛盾冲突或产生怨恨时,巴布亚族人就通过吵架将怨恨发泄出来,而且往往一吵就是好几个小时,直至双方感到疲惫不堪才罢。吵架结束后,夫妻两人挽起手臂,愉快地回家,好象没有发生过什么事情。这样不但不会伤感情,反而使夫妻之间得到沟通,增进了解,也使部落中的其他人受到教益。
In the South Pacific there is an indigenous group called the Papua. This nation has a traditional custom, that is, every village has specifically opened up a named “couple quarrel” of the venue, specifically for couples to quarrel and onlookers. When clashes or resentment occur between husband and wife, the Papu people vent their resentment through quarrels and often strike for hours at a time until both are fatigued. After the quarrel, the couple rolled their arms and happily went home, as if nothing had happened. Not only will this not hurt the feelings, but will enable the couples to communicate with each other and promote mutual understanding, as well as benefiting the others in the tribe.