根据调查及来信咨询发现,在87％的家庭里,父母与孩子存在沟通问题。具体表现为不能相互尊重和理解,不能站在对方的立场上考虑问题,随意打骂,缺少关怀等等。大多数父母几乎没有和孩子进行过真正的沟通,也不知道孩子心中究竟在想什么。在对某学校小学六年级主题班会——“我最想对爸爸、妈妈说的一句话”的调查中,我们发现了很多对父母有价值的信息,如下几类心声都是孩子亲口所说的话。 According to the survey and letter consultation found that in 87% of families, parents and children communication problems exist. Specific performance can not be mutual respect and understanding, can not stand on the other side of the position to consider the issue, arbitrarily abuse, lack of care and so on. Most parents have virtually no real communication with their children and do not know what the children are thinking. In the survey of the sixth grade class meeting of a school primary school - “I’d most like to say a word to my father and mother,” we found a lot of valuable information for parents. The following types of aspirations are what children say in their own words .