福建的步凡同学来信说:和周围朋友比起来,我觉得自己没什么优点,缺点倒是挺多,好没自信啊。看了步凡的来信,我想先从生活中的一次经历说起。有个孩子因为胆小的性格曾来找我寻求帮助。我告诉他:“胆小不是缺点,换个角度看就是优点。你只是非常谨慎罢了。”孩子又问:“那勇敢难道是缺点?” Letter from the students of Bufan, Fujian Province, said: Compared with the friends around me, I feel that I have no merits and demerits. After reading all the letters, I would like to start with an experience in my life. A child came to me for help because of his timid personality. I told him: “timid is not a disadvantage, from another point of view is the merit. You are just very cautious. ” The child asked: “brave is it a disadvantage? ”