子曰:三十而立,四十而不惑。到了四十岁,还不清楚自己最想要什么,最适合自己的是什么,忘记了最初为什么出发,是可叹可怜的。单位有个青年数学教师,酷爱钓鱼,一年四季,双休日、寒暑假,乐此不疲,且技术高超,每次骑车出去,都能满载而归,收获颇丰。我问他,你在河边塘边一个人站半天,不累吗?半天鱼不上钩,不着急吗?人家说不累呀,也不急,很有意思。我想他说的一定是真心话。 Son said: thirty stand, forty and not confused. At the age of forty, it is not yet clear what you want most, what is best for yourselves, and you forget what was originally your starting point. The unit has a young math teacher, love fishing, all year round, weekends, summer and winter vacations, bored, and superb technology, each ride out, can go back home, rewarding. I asked him, you stand by the river in the river a man a long time, not tired? Half-day fish hooked, not in a hurry? People say not tired ah, nor urgent, very interesting. I think he must say is the truth.